I got robbed and what I did about it.
It was end of August when I looked at my fence and noticed this piece of wood that was broken. Weird, I thought. I looked at my security camera and seen that hours before, at 4 am a lad jumped into our garden and efortlessly took my egg chair in his back and off he went with it. I immediately started shaking and burst into tears.
That chair had sentimental value for me. I've dreamt of having one for over 3 years and when I finally got it, it was my safe space. Every single sunny day after breakfast I would go outsite and lay in there, soaking in the sun. Sometimes I would read a book while I was relaxing in the chair, hearing the birds. It really got to me. That day I went from neighbour to neighbour to ask if they had cctv cameras, to ask if they heard something.
I checked ad after ad, marketplace, gumtree, any platform that they could have sold it on. Day after day, night after night I went patroling the streets with Nick hoping that we will find it, but we didn't. It was a distressing experience that left me angry and feeling hopeless for weeks, until I decided that I need to take action. We've talked for years about expanding our family with a dog and this was the perfect opportunity, so our final choice was a german shepherd- loyal, reliable, smart and extremly protective. This is how Alma came into our lives.
After that we decided that it was too easy for others to jump the fence, so we installed some sharp spikes.We bought them online and after placing them we put some signs of warning on the fence near them. Don't say we didn't warn you!
While I was looking at the footage with the guy taking my chair I realised that at some point the light near our home turned on as it had sensors- he didn't even care, he actually tried to have a good look at what was inside our living room, but the curtains were on. That's why we got an alarm system inside that's with movement sensors.
Also, to make sure that we'll try to make our home as safe as we can for ourselves, we decided that Patlock was the best solution as we've seen ads about it on police & neighbourhood watch websites and groups . It provides us with extra security and it's easy to use, it literally takes seconds for us to put on, take off. Patlock is easy to fit and works by holding the internal door handles secure, meaning the external handles cannot be operated. This ensures that the door mechanism remains in the locked position, even if the locks are snapped or removed. So we use it whenever we are out or at night. Better safe than sorry!
This is my experience from the end of summer 2020. Did anything similar happened to you?
If yes, what did you do about it?
*Patlock was a gifted product
How to Look Chic on Your Vacation
Have you ever walked into your wardrobe to pick your travel outfit but couldn't find something to take with you? The problem isn't that your closet is empty, but you can't match anything to your travel destination. This happens to most people when they travel, but it doesn't have to be the norm.
When visiting a new destination, you strive to look your best. However, you don't want to bring the entire wardrobe along, especially if going for a few days only. These simple tips on planning your trip can help you pick the right items.
Pack Your Old Favorites
Everyone has those clothing pieces in their wardrobe that are their favorite items. You love them because they not only make you look great but are easy to match with a variety of accessories. Ensure you pack them first before stuffing your suitcase with other items.
Regardless of how many times you’ve worn them before, you'll feel different about them while at your destination. Remember that the weather conditions might be different in the place you intend to visit and plan appropriately. You might want to bring some warm clothes for cold destinations and light ones for hot areas.
Bring Your Fashionable Basics
Another challenge with packing for a vacation is picking functional yet fashionable basics. Here, the idea is to look chic and comfortable without spending a fortune on new fashion items.
If you're a lover of jewelry back at home, don't be afraid to bring those pieces along on your travel. You might own a bunch of colorful button-ups, but they may not serve the purpose on your trip. Instead, pick pieces that will make you look good whether you're going for a dinner, business meeting, or casual lunch by the beach. They should be items that won't make your suitcase too bulky.
As a tip, pick enough sweaters, tops, blouses, long-sleeve shirts, pants, underwear, and dresses. It would help if you also packed enough pairs of shoes to last you the entire trip. Don’t forget to bring a pair of eyeglasses designed for travel, fashion, and style. You can get a wide variety to choose from at Eyeglasses.com.
Have a Chic Sling Bag
A sling bag is essential for easy organization of small essential items that you can with you everywhere. These include your lip gloss, eyeglasses, cash, credit cards, handkerchief, sunscreen, and mascara.
Let the color of the sling bag be such that it easily compliments all your outfits. Alternatively, you can bring more than one sling bag with you. The length of the strap should also be comfortable while keeping your bag safely near your hands for easy reach.
Don’t Forget Your Skin and Hair Care Products
Your skin and hair need care home and away. Although you may not spend much time on your hair while on vacation, it doesn’t mean you should neglect it. Bring a bottle of dry shampoo which you apply on the go before styling your hair.
Moisturizers for your skin, a bit of powder, and your regular makeup items are essential. Make sure to use some good-quality sunscreen to protect your skin from the sun's rays.
Take Away
Packing for a vacation can be a challenge. However, you can establish a routine, especially if you’re a frequent traveler. Ensure you have outfits for every occasion and the accessories are carefully picked. Most importantly, don’t forget to bring your confidence; it’s the ultimate mark of looking chic on your vacation.

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- B E A U T Y , F A S H I O N , L I F E S T Y L E + T R A V E L B L O G G E R currently living in LEEDS, UK . CONTACT ME : CUPCAKESPLEND@YAHOO.CO.UK